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Assalammualaikum, hai..

agaknya dah lama sangat dah tak berblog, sebab sibuk sikit dengan kelas, assignment , aktiviti luar kehkeh..

petang ni tetiba rajin pulak nak bebel kat belog sendiri.. *assignment masih menunggu*
 hari ni nak share sikit pasal pemerhatian aku kat fb kebelakangan ni.. sekarang teknologi gadget semua orang dah berkemapuan nak miliki , budank-budak pun dah ipong kan.. so skg kat fb semakin hari gejala nak screen shot salah silap org menjadi-jadi, lagi nak sebarkan aib dan malu org?. memang lah dia salah, tapi kita tak sepatutnya sebarkan kat orang lain, macamla cara kita tegur tu betulkan? padahal kita tengah hina dia. kalau sayangkan dia pun sebaiknya tegur personally .. bukan dengan cara screen shot ..org lain pun siap syok2 laki tekan button share ..hinggalah jadi viral.. bayangkan lah kalau semua dosa kita.. silap kita org nampak terus org share kat fb...twitter etc.. malu kan? "Barangsiapa menutup aib seorang muslim, maka Allah akan menutup aibnya." (HR al-Bukhari dan Muslim)


make sure kalau nak share something tanya kat diri sendiri dulu adakah betul ke tak cara kita tu :)

Sesiapa yang menegurmu di khalayak ramai, sebenarnya dia telah menghina dirimu - Imam Syafie

kullu nafsin zaaikatul maut-Mh370

My deepest condolences to the families of the passangers on board MH370. No words can describe how much it hurts. Apa yang pasti, kita semua juga akan ke sana, cuma masa yang menentukan. :')

Sungguhlah, Dia pengatur, perancang bagi semua perkara. Kun fayakun. Jadi! maka 

jadilah. No matter it’s you,or other people, takkan ada seorang pun terlepas kalau dah Dia kata you have

to go through all these circumstances, 


no matter what; then you have to. Tak ada pangkat atau darjat yang membezakan kita bila 

berhadapan dengan Dia.
Apa apa pun yang jadi, the ultimate truth that we have to face is “kullu nafsin zaaikatul 

maut.” To Allah we belong and to Him we shall return. Any argument isn’t valid anymore. 

He is the One The only God.

Inna Lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji’un. Jugak untuk 529 orang penyokong Presiden Muhammad 

Mursi yang dijatuhkan hukuman mati. Al-fatihah. May Allah be with them. He is Al-Adl. 

Adil dalam setiap perkara. He knows while we know not.

Allah nak tunjuk jauh mana pun kita pergi, akhirnya kita akan cari Dia, balik pada Dia. 

Sebab Dia, pemberi ujian.

Dan Dia jugak yang membuka jalan. Bukan pakar, bukan mesin, bukan bomoh mahu 

pawang, bukan apa-apa pun. Cuma Dia. Enough said.

Harun Din - Mh370

Dr Harun Din Mula Bersuara Mengenai MH 370.
Ini antara Intipati Kuliah yang disampaikan oleh beliau selepas solat Maghrib di sebuah 

masjid:
1.Kembali kepada cara hidup islam. Sistem Islam, kembali kepada Allah.
Insaflah yang kita sedang diuji Allah.
2.Air di empangan makin kurang. 3/4 Malaysia berjerebu dan terbaru MH370. Berpuluh-

puluh kapal dan aircrafts cari pun tak jumpa. Allah nak ajar manusia bahawa ilmu kita ni 

sangat sedikit berbanding ilmu Allah.

3.Kalau diambil seluruh lautan dan seluruh pokok dan tumbuhan hingga habis untuk 

dijadikan tinta, masih tak mampu nak menulis kalimah Allah. Apatah lagi ilmuNya.
4.Beliau(Dr Harun Din) bacakan ayat quran ..jangan makan dan minum yang haram…maka 

kalau kita langgar ..mengundang kemurkaan Allah lalu Allah akan turun bala.
5.Apa yang berlaku pada MH370 jadikan Malaysia tumpuan seluruh dunia. Allah malukan 

kita dengan peristiwa tikar terbang sehingga Arab Saudi kata kita biarkan syirik berleluasa. 

Memang itu yang berlaku sebenarnya… Allah hina negara kita dengan peristiwa macam ni.
6.Majoriti manusia tak melihat peristiwa yang berlaku dengan mata hati bukan mata kasar.

Mata hati kita buta kerana banyak maksiat dan syirik. Allah ingatkan kita..kembali 

padaNya..pohon maaf..insaf.
7.Bila dah 3 ke 4 hari tak jumpa baru nak ingat Allah.. Baru nak solat hajat. Bagi yang 

terang mata hati..terus baca innalillahi wainna ilaihirojiuun sewaktu awal-awal peristiwa 

berlaku.
8.Beliau(Dr Harun din) mengeluarkan pendapat ikut pengalaman, beliau melihat Saudi 

Airline dan Brunei amat menekankan kepada juruterbang mereka bacaan doa(bagi yang 

muslim) sebelum melakukan penerbangan.
9.Kenapa kita tak berserah pada Allah dalam setiap permulaan perjalanan? Di malaysia 

ni..banyak sangat orang Islam percaya perkara khurafat..bomoh dah jadi kelaziman 

hinggakan orang buat tikar terbang di KLIA pun tiada orang Islam yang menghalang…

Hingga 1 dunia tengok kebodohan dan kesyirikan yang berlaku di negara kita… Lihat 

dengan mata hati…itu penghinaan Allah pada kita.

Jodoh/mate..

"You might be married to the worst man on earth, like Asiah who married Pharoah, but it didn’t change her goodness or her aqidah. You might be married to the best man on earth, like Prophet Lut’s wife, yet that doesn’t mean you’re going to Jannah with him. You might not be married at all, like our beloved Maryam (r.a) yet Allah swt places your status above all other women on earth. Have faith in Allah always & place your full trust in Him. He’s the central focal point of our lives." [Heba El-Haddad]


I woke up this morning with that quote ringing in my mind...I had read it a few days ago but somehow its effect on me is only surfacing today.


Anyway. Jodoh. What IS jodoh?

I dont have the english word for it though.

Most people translate this literally as 'mate'...most in my social circle translate jodoh to mean spouse & the relationship between them.

I don't believe in those definitions. They are too short-sighted and narrow, especially when you integrate religion and life experiences and philosophical ideas of marriage and relationships into it.



Jodoh. Just like our life and death/ajal...it is all pre-determined. My understanding of jodoh is more of a concept of predetermined soulmates.



"Exalted is He who created all pairs - from what the earth grows and from themselves and from that which they do not know."- Yaasiin, 36.


Everyone has their jodoh.

And you will be with your jodoh in Heaven thereafter. Whether or not you are lucky enough to meet your jodoh in this life, is a different story. Some people may never meet their jodoh, as jodoh includes lives lost in aborted fetuses, deaths in children, etc.


The Malays always say 'dah tak ada jodoh' whenever a relationship/marriage fails...how can that be, when God Himself has created you and your jodoh? The logical reason is, he/she wasn't your jodoh in the first place. He/She was a rezeki, a blessing for that period of time. You mean to say if you do marry again, you found another jodoh? Let me ask you, does ajal come twice?

Lets say you have an illness, that doesnt mean you know how your ajal will come.

Similarly, just because you are in a relationship, does not mean you have found your jodoh.


Bottomline : only God knows whether or not you are with your jodoh.

Be the best you are, and be grateful for the person that you have.

A friend is need is a friend indeed

! warning this is quite a longer post :p

salam girls! I never really write that much these days, huh? Well, I've been seriously busy with things! Really really sorry....but I will let you know all about it soon! hehe. But anyways...today, I have a little bit of free time, so I'm gonna spare some of my time now to write a bit - Okayyy.. maybe not thattt bit. It's kinda lengthy actually. haha. I'm just bored and don't feel like editing pictures. So words, will do! ;)

Anyway, today's topic is about friends. Let's talk about friendship! This is something that I have been meaning to write in here.. It's something that I learned these past couple of years. And today after I saw something, it just made me wanted to write about it even more :)



Well I came across a proverb that says a friend in need is a friend indeed! ...which kinda reminds me a lot of things in my life. So today, with my free time noww.. I decided to make a post about what I have learned about friendship! Anyway, have you ever heard of this quote before? A friend in need is a friend indeed! Well, this phrase can have two meanings actually;
It means that one way to know that someone is really a true friend is when they come to you in . It means that they trust you with their secrets, know you will not judge them for their problems or their inablitity to solve them on their own. That friend knows they can call on you in an emergency. So in helping them, your "deeds" are proof of your friendship! - For example, if I'm home alone and accidentally cut my hand while doing something in the kitchen, I would need a good friend I could call to drive me to the doctor or to the emergency room. And if I choose you, then I am a friend in need who really needs you to be my friend right now! ^__^
Another meaning behind that phrase could also mean someone who only communicates with you  - They call you a friend, but outside of your repeatedly rescuing them, there is nothing more to the relationship!  Oh, beware my darlings, of these kind of people! They're not a true friend. These are some terrible friends!  O__oAnyway, in today's world, I really think that it's really hard to find what I call...a . It's kinda like the same situation in relationship when you really wanted to find TRUE LOVE. So I think this is kinda like the same thing with finding a True Friend in friendship!  You may see two or three or four or even ten people being so close with one another in good times, but that maybe just on the surface... You should not judge a person in those good times honey, but in difficult times as well! (this applies to relationship too!) There are different kinds of friends. True and faithful friends, casual friends and false/fake or fair-weather friends, etc! A true and faithful friend has certain qualities, which you should also have! It is correctly said that . Hmm..I don't know about you, but for me...I have many different category and types of what I call "friends":
 Social friends - don't really know each other that much. Only hang out a couple of times and talk about crap and stuff.   Next-Door friends.Neighbours, Co-workers, Schoolmates, etc  "Biasa-biasa" kind of friend a.k.a Casual Friend - You guys always see each other but don't really share personal or even not-so-personal things. You just know a little bit, here and there about one another  Hi-Bye friend. Don't know each other at all but recognizes one another from parties, events or whatever, and say "Hi!" (and only"Hi!") to each other when you guys met. haha Social-Media/Internet friends.Never met. But know each other in the virtual world. Like you and me here. We are friends in this virtual world! So, "Hi friend!" :)  Only-Gonna-Be-Your-Friend-When-You-Are-Cool-and-Happy-But-Leave-When-You're-Sad-and-Boring! kind of friends.  -__-' Ass Kisser Friend. Those who only be your very best friend when they want something from you. So they'll show you some reaaallly good qualities in front of you. But betray you later. Pfffffft  Old Friend  New Friend  Imaginary Friend. Erk?     Fake Friend. Ouch. Beware!!!  At-The-Moment Friend. These are the type that would only talk or see each other when they're at the same place as you. i.e. living in the same apartment, going to school together, same class/workplace, etc. However, they would ignore / stop communicating with you once you're not in their life anymore. - Unfortunately this happens to most of us. (It's really sad to know how people just leave and lost contact with you just like that, huh? - Especially if you know the person well for years.) Close Friend. Share everyyyy thing together.Best Friend or these days they called it as BFF. Know almost everything about you - Waitt..I think this is kinda similar to the above? haha. Whatever ;p In-Good-Times-and-Bad-Times friend. - Now...this is !  Forever-and-Everrrrr...Till-Death-Do-Us-Part Friends.Woww...really? These people are SO lucky to have a true friend like this! hehe Bad Times Friends. Okayy..this is not really a friend. This is your enemy. Go away. Haha  No-Status kind of friend.So there are really a lot of category for "friends" here. But what I like to highlight here today in this post is about . From what I learned from my pasts in relationship and friendship, it's best to judge someone you're so close with, when you are in trouble, when you are in need, when you are alone, when you are sick, when you are broke...and et cetera. For me, I personally view friendship a little bit different than others, I guess? Some people might not really care about a friendship. To them, friends are not important. They just view friends...as "justtttt friends", I guess? No "attachment" kind of feelings to the person or whatever. But not me. I cherish my friendship/relationship with whoever that I am so close with. I care about the people I'm around with. But sadly, in this mad, mad world...there are many, many types of people that we need to be aware of. Some are sincere. Some just happens to be...erm.. not so sincere, I guess. We may be having many friends at the time of prosperity. But most of them desert at the time of adversity. We can examine the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble! All others would leave us. It is very painful when our friends turn traitors, huh? tskk.

There are many fair-weathered friends in this world.  It is very difficult to find a true friend nowadays, don't you think? I once heard from my lecturer that it is better to establish a true friendship with either a cat or a dog...or a ferret, I would say! haha. Because both these pets or "friends" would remain faithful to their human friends! Tapi dalam dunia kita ni, terlalu banyak jenis manusia...sampai kadang-kadang kita tersalah tafsir atau tak boleh beza, mana satu yang hati bersih, mana satu yang niat baik, mana satu yang ikhlas, etc...bila terlalu banyak sangat benda yang konon nampak macam "real", macam indah, etc. Tapi sebenarnya tidak. This is why you need to start guarding yourself up and not trusting people 100%

The truth is, the world out there is cruel.

Very often some hypocrites pretend to be friends. They are more dangerous than avowed enemies. By telling soft words, by praising you to skies, by being so nice to you, and linger around you as long as you enjoy happiness, wealth, health and power. But when fortune and happiness turns against you, they would be nowhere to be seen! By doing that, they actually bring enormous ruin to us when they turn traitors! And that is what hurt the most! A true friend never exploits! He/she rather surrenders. So this is where you need to know who to be nice with, who to be friends and associate with! Sebab tu dulu cikgu-cikgu or parents selalu remind us untuk "pilih kawan". Jadi, buatlah pilihan yang terbaik dalam memilih seorang kawan yang boleh di panggil "sahabat"..... Or just don't trust people 100% and always be on guard! When you're in school, the social group that you're with will probably change. People change all the time. So be sure not to trust anyone 100%!

There can be some real jerks in schools, college and your workplace. And people may be targeting you if they see you're so naive...or nice or can be taken advantage of. So again, I'm reminding you not to put complete trust in all of your friends, even if you know them for 10 years already. I've seen so many betrayal of friends (I'm talking about 20-30 years of friendship), because of business and money or third party in relationship, etc! So don't put 100% trust in people and put anyone you love as your number 1, but instead, you should put Allah and only Him first, in whatever you do! :)


Friends are the family that we can choose. Good friends exercise good influence. They always help their friends, in distress and inspire them to walk on the right path. But evil friends ruin us completely...and disappear when we needed them! These days, the meaning of friendship has changed..and sadly, today, friendship between two persons is often short-lived. It's either you're Best Friends since school or college , OR.... you Best Friends when you were studying/working together years and years ago. And then totally lost contact when they find some new friends at the new place or something like that.. or find something else that interests them which doesn't include you anymore. This is typically the common situation for most of us. Only the lucky ones would still have a good relationship/friendship with their Close Friend/Best Friend until 30-40 years or more perhaps. Others, would only come to you again, when they needed something from you.... Yeah, that sucks right? Well, that's life. You could be a very best friend with someone when you work together for 20-30 years, but when you're retired, the person would not even text you, or call you. Apatah lagi jumpa. Especially if you're no longer his/her boss or someone more superior than him/her. So..yeah. This is where you can see and judge whether the person has been sincere to you or not, for all those years. Because like it or not, people tend to forget things that are not in front of them anymore. This is life. When that sucky situation happen, you just have to move on and live your life without them! Life is just full of uncertainties. So you need to guard yourself up, and don't let people walk all over you, honey!

So anyway, this "a friend in need is a friend indeed" proverb has always stands true. You always have friends who are with you during good times, but the ones who stick with you, when you face tough times,  when you truly need them, are the ones that are indeed your friends!
(However, my friend is quite confused with this phrase. She thought like.. why should she consider someone a friend, just because they are needy? hehe) Well, let me give you another example here:

A friend in need:

When you are in need. When you need help, when you are unable to give any repayment. When you are broke and everyone hates you, etc.


Is a friend indeed.

If your friend stays by you, when you are in need, that is a So they are a "friend indeed!". - BUT If your friends only stay by you when you are rich, popular, beautiful, berpengaruh & berpangkat besar, and for whatever reasons it may be, etc etc...then these are  So be sure to know who your true, and real friends are! The world out there is cruel, my dad always reminds me this. So you should be more careful on this, ladies! :)


So in our day to day work, we come across so many persons and all of them are not our "real friends". Each person has an individual character and it is hard to find people who share your thoughts, interests, jokes, etc, so when you find one, please stay true with one another! (same goes to relationship too!)

Many things are needed to make friendship a real one, including trustworthiness, support, honesty, and loyalty, etc. Friendship (and relationship) is supposed to make both people happy, and enjoying their relationship. Good friends know all about one another. A person who is honest and sincere can prove to be a good friend!

I think friendship grows on a mutual trust and help. Friendship demands time and effort. So sometimes you have to step over your pride and put yourself on the place of your friend, and see what she feels even if you think you are correct. But in exchange, a friend can provide a lot of support and comfort in good times and bad.. So if you find someone so dearly, hold on to that person and don't let go! However still, it might occur that at one point of life you are best friends, and then something happened and you can never be friends anymore. Well like I said, things happen, this is how life is..and you need to move on and find another friend and happiness..and remember to guard yourself up next time, so you won't hurt anymore! Your life is blessed, if you have a faithful friend. So be sure to be one first!

Mahatma Gandhi once said that adversity is the crucible test for friendship. You know your real friend, only when he stands by you, in times of adversity. It is said that prosperity makes friends. Adversity tries them. So...are you a real friend to your friend? I hope you are! ^__^


Well I'm glad I found one........for now? heheh. Joking! ;p - Inshaallah, I hope you'll be my best friend until Jannah! Oh, I love you, my friend! And thank you Allah for this wonderful gift! ;)

"aku nak kawin"

It's been a while since I updated my blog. The last update was on the 11 of february. Haha. lama jugak tak hapdate.. tunggu ada idea baru nak update kihkihkih.. ok tajuk blog nak di rapukan hari ni adalah " aku nak baby jugak!" Hahahaha.. not officially 21.. but when people ask me about my age im going to answer "21 heee" membuatkan perasaan aku kuat nak kawen sebab tak sabar2 nak ada keluarga sendiri.. especially ada anak sendiri.. tahap palaing bahagia lah kalau aku pregnant time ni (klo da kawe laaaa -,-" hahaha.. tak tau la nak cakap apa.. kahwin ni salah satu perkara yang refer to Happiness.. umur makin menjejak dewasa ni tengok kawan2 suma da ada family sendiri Allah.. cemburu pun ada.. nak wat cemaneeee :l orang sekarang ni dengar ja orang nak kawen muda jak assume macam2... eh kawin muda ni di galakkan tau bersesuai dengan situasi la.. kalao masih sekolah tu.. hem rasanya menggangu sikit laa.. orang yang mejadi inspirasi sumber semangat aku nak kawen ni Dena Bahrin. Eleena baharudin.. Atitah Haris. Irine Nadia.. eh banyak lagi lah.. bahagiaaa jaa aku tengok.. tapi hairan orang selalu cakap " simpan duit banyak2 dulu.. beli keta sendiri dulu.. enjoy2 dulu" eh.. lepas kwin tak boleh ke capai suma tu.. jangan korban demi dunia.. rugi akhirat haaa tengok.. ustajah patin nak ceramah niii hahaha.. fokes pokes! Haha.. untungla kawan aku tu banyak da kawen allah agaknya menggunung pahala dorang ni ^_^ yang penting sebelum kawin kena ada ilmu.. jangan main kawin ja.. especially lelaki.. banyak responsibility nya tau! Hem... masa belajar ni aku imagine plak kalo aku kawin.. plg ja rumah kena masak lagi.. ngan anak lagi hikhik sebab tu la kot mak aku tak benarkan kawinn dulu.. sebab dia tau anak bongsuu dia ni mcm mana haha.. but Alhamdulillah umur pun dah meningkat fikiran kena la matang an ;) insyallah habes diploma ni nantikan apa pulak jadik kat haku ni ;) I syallah yakin dengan allah.. usaha.. doa dan tawakal.. allah akan permudahkan :) err dear my future husband please didik kita jadi isteri solehah taw ;)

sekiannn ;)

HURT

Even if someone tries to cause any hurt, stay firm in our belief and remember that no one can cause we any pain if Allah does not desire it for we

Allah said..

“And if Allah touches you with hurt, there is none who can remove it but he and if he intends any good for you, there is none who can keep back his favour he brings it to whom he pleases of his servants and he is the Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”
- Qur’an, Surah Yunus; 10:107

:)

Pujuk hati kita dengan al quran insyallah. Inside the quran there is quite a lot of meaningful word. So many lesson we can learn in their..

Oneday I have been hurt by someone .. and I believe and persuade to my self how worst we have been feel remember Allah is fair.. what we have done we get back .. good or bad.. :)

Allah will reveal what we never seen and what was hide..

Behind hurt their is sweetness.. behind sweetness there must be bitter they have been go through before and after sorrow and happiness.....